When I Finally Found Him: “My Journey to Love” Part 3

Hello all,

I am so happy that you all have loved my journey to love series.  So let me give you all a quick recap.

Earlier this year I was at a place in my life in which I came to the conclusion that finding that perfect someone may not be in the cards for me but the cosmic gods must have been listing and put this one person in my life at the right time. So this is my journey to actually finding the love of my life. If you feel a little loss I suggest that you check out Part 1 & 2 of my story.

So picking up where I left off.  I decided to go on a few more dates with him.  We had been having such a great time and really getting a chance to know each other.  I think by the 6th or 7th date I decided to give him a kiss because he was still not trying to kiss me. It turns out that he was an awesome kisser so it was very much worth the wait. He is such an old school type of guy and he told me later that he didn’t want to push the issue or rush into anything. He is really old fashion and wanted to date me the old fashion way.

I want to say that about a month of dating he asked me if I would be his girlfriend with the premise that one day we would get married.  When he asked me I was happy and surprised at the same time.  It had been such a long time since I was asked to be anyone girlfriend. It was very new to also be asked to be someone’s girlfriend with the premise of us getting married.  So, of course, I said yes.

Fast forward to today.  We have been dating now for about 6 months and I can say I can’t be happier.  In September of this year, I actually introduced him to my mother which is a huge step for me.  I have rarely taken any guy to meet my mother and it turned out that my mother liked him and we are planning to do more activities with my mom in the near future so that they can get to know each other better. I have also introduced him to one of my sisters, and one of my brothers which they have given me their approval as well. Both of our girls have met each other as well.  I, of course, have a 13-year-old daughter and he has a 9-year-old daughter.  She is so cute and pretty awesome.  She even asked me to be her stepmom because she loves that I am making her dad happy.

We both care and love each other very much and are looking at spending the rest of our lives together.  I can say at this point that next year hopefully will be a truly happy year and I can’t wait to share what is next to come.  I really hope you all enjoyed reading about my journey. I totally feel that I have finally found the love of my life and like I said I can’t wait to share our experiences with you all.

Stay Tuned




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